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  • Ker Sangri

    Ker sangri is the true taste of the Thar. Sangri are the long, thin pods of the khejri tree, and ker are small, sour wild berries from a thorny desert shrub. Both grow without irrigation in the harshest parts of western Rajasthan, and they are harvested, sun-dried and stored, so families had a vegetable dish available even in the dry months.

    Once soaked and boiled, sangri has a chewy, earthy texture and ker a sharp, slightly bitter tang. Cooked with mustard oil, red chilli, amchur, cumin and fennel, the dish is dry, sour and spicy, and keeps for several days without refrigeration, which is why it was a favourite for long journeys and festivals. Dried kumatiya seeds and raisins are sometimes added in the panchkuta version.

    It is eaten with bajra roti, puri or as part of a royal Rajasthani thali, and is often served at weddings. A little goes a long way alongside dal and roti. Dried ker and sangri are sold in Rajasthani grocery shops and online, and keep for a year in an airtight jar. Soaking overnight is essential, so plan this dish a day ahead.

    At a glance

    RegionRajasthan
    CuisineRajasthani
    DietVegan
    CourseSide dish
    Prep time480 minutes
    Cook time30 minutes
    Total time510 minutes
    Serves4
    Spice levelHot
    DifficultyEasy
    Gluten-freeYes
    Key ingredientssangri / ker / mustard oil / amchur / red chilli

    Ingredients

    • 1 cup dried sangri
    • 1/3 cup dried ker
    • 4 tbsp mustard oil
    • 1/4 tsp hing
    • 1 tsp cumin seeds
    • 1 tsp saunf
    • 3 dried red chillies
    • 1 tbsp coriander powder
    • 1 1/2 tsp red chilli powder
    • 1/2 tsp turmeric
    • 2 tsp amchur
    • 1 tbsp raisins (optional)
    • Salt to taste

    Method

    1. Wash the sangri and ker separately in several changes of water and soak them in plenty of water for 8 hours or overnight.
    2. Drain and rinse again. Boil both together in fresh salted water for 15 to 20 minutes, or pressure cook for 2 whistles, until the sangri is soft but still has a little bite.
    3. Drain well, discarding the water. Break any long sangri pods into 5 cm pieces.
    4. Heat mustard oil in a kadai until it smokes, then lower the heat to medium. Add hing, cumin, saunf and dried red chillies.
    5. Mix the coriander powder, chilli powder and turmeric with 2 tbsp water to a paste and add it to the oil. Fry 1 minute until the oil separates.
    6. Add the ker and sangri, raisins and salt. Toss well and cook on medium for 8 to 10 minutes, stirring often, until everything is coated and slightly dry.
    7. Sprinkle the amchur, toss for a final minute so it coats the pods evenly, and switch off.

    Tips

    • Soak well; under-soaked sangri stays tough and woody.
    • Making the spice paste with water stops the powdered spices from burning in the hot oil.
    • Ker sangri keeps for 3 to 4 days at room temperature in cool weather, making it good travel food.

    Serve with

    Bajra roti or puris, with dal and buttermilk.

  • Modur Pulav

    Modur pulav, literally sweet pulao, is the celebratory rice of Kashmir. It is cooked at weddings, births and festivals, in both Pandit and Muslim homes, and its golden colour and perfume of saffron make it a centrepiece. The valley's own saffron from Pampore is traditionally used, along with walnuts and almonds grown in Kashmiri orchards.

    The rice is long-grain basmati cooked with ghee, sugar, cinnamon, cardamom and cloves, so every grain is glossy and lightly sweet. Saffron soaked in milk is drizzled in at the end, leaving streaks of gold, and the pulao is studded with fried almonds, cashews, walnuts, raisins and sometimes dried apricots and dates.

    Though sweet, it is served as part of the main meal alongside savoury dishes like yakhni or rogan josh, so the contrast of sweet and spiced is part of the experience. It is also offered at shrines and religious gatherings. Because it is sweet and rich, a small serving is enough, and leftovers can be warmed with a sprinkle of water and a spoon of ghee.

    At a glance

    RegionJammu and Kashmir
    CuisineKashmiri
    DietVegetarian
    CourseRice
    Prep time30 minutes
    Cook time30 minutes
    Total time60 minutes
    Serves4
    Spice levelMild
    DifficultyMedium
    Gluten-freeYes
    Key ingredientsbasmati rice / saffron / ghee / sugar / dry fruits

    Ingredients

    • 1 1/2 cups aged basmati rice
    • 4 tbsp ghee
    • 1/2 cup sugar
    • 1 cinnamon stick, 4 green cardamom, 4 cloves, 1 bay leaf
    • A generous pinch of saffron soaked in 3 tbsp warm milk
    • 10 almonds, halved
    • 10 cashews
    • 8 walnut halves
    • 2 tbsp raisins
    • 4 dried apricots or dates, chopped (optional)
    • 1/2 tsp salt
    • 2 1/2 cups water

    Method

    1. Wash the rice gently until the water runs clear and soak for 30 minutes. Drain.
    2. Bring a large pot of water to a boil with the salt, add the rice and cook 6 to 7 minutes until about three-quarters done. Drain in a colander.
    3. Heat 2 tbsp ghee in a heavy pan on medium. Fry almonds, cashews and walnuts for 2 minutes until golden, add raisins and apricots for 30 seconds until the raisins puff. Remove.
    4. Add the remaining ghee to the pan with cinnamon, cardamom, cloves and bay leaf. Let them sizzle for 30 seconds.
    5. Add the sugar with 1/2 cup water and stir until it dissolves into a light syrup, about 2 minutes.
    6. Add the parboiled rice and fold very gently. Drizzle the saffron milk over the top and scatter most of the fried dry fruits.
    7. Cover tightly and cook on the lowest heat for 12 to 15 minutes (on a tawa placed under the pan, if your burner runs hot), until the rice is fully cooked and the syrup absorbed.
    8. Rest 5 minutes, fluff gently and garnish with the remaining dry fruits.

    Tips

    • Parboiling first keeps the grains separate; cooking raw rice in syrup makes it sticky.
    • Adjust sugar to taste – traditional versions are quite sweet.
    • A few drops of rose water at the end add another layer of perfume.

    Serve with

    Kashmiri yakhni or rogan josh as part of a festive meal.

  • Shahi Paneer

    Shahi means royal, and shahi paneer belongs to the Mughlai tradition of Awadh and Delhi, where court cooks favoured rich, nut-thickened gravies perfumed with cardamom, mace and flower waters. The vegetarian version became a staple of North Indian weddings, where it often sits beside dal makhani on the buffet. It still holds a place of honour on festive menus.

    Compared with paneer butter masala, it is paler, nuttier and more aromatic. Onions are boiled or gently cooked without browning, blended with cashews and melon seeds, then simmered with curd, cream and whole spices. The taste is mild, slightly sweet and creamy, with a floral finish from kewra or rose water and a pinch of saffron.

    It is a celebration dish for Diwali dinners, family functions and guests, served with naan, sheermal or a fragrant pulao. A small portion goes a long way because it is rich. Because the gravy is mild and nutty, it also balances a spicier dish such as kadai paneer or chole on the same table. The onion-cashew paste can be prepared a day ahead and refrigerated, leaving only a short simmer before serving.

    At a glance

    RegionUttar Pradesh
    CuisineMughlai
    DietVegetarian
    CourseMain course
    Prep time20 minutes
    Cook time35 minutes
    Total time55 minutes
    Serves4
    Spice levelMild
    DifficultyMedium
    Gluten-freeYes
    Key ingredientspaneer / cashew / onion / curd / cream

    Ingredients

    For the white paste

    • 2 medium onions, roughly chopped
    • 15 cashews
    • 1 tbsp magaz (melon seeds), optional
    • 2 green chillies
    • 1 inch ginger
    • 4 garlic cloves
    • 1 cup water

    For the gravy

    • 300 g paneer, cubed
    • 3 tbsp ghee
    • 1 bay leaf, 4 green cardamom, 4 cloves, 1 small cinnamon stick
    • 1/2 cup thick curd, whisked
    • 1 tsp Kashmiri chilli powder
    • 1 tsp coriander powder
    • 1/4 tsp green cardamom powder
    • A pinch of mace powder
    • A pinch of saffron soaked in 2 tbsp warm milk
    • 1/4 cup fresh cream
    • 1 tsp sugar
    • 3 to 4 drops kewra water
    • Salt to taste

    Method

    1. Simmer onions, cashews, melon seeds, green chillies, ginger and garlic in 1 cup water for 10 minutes until the onions are soft and translucent. Cool and blend to a fine, smooth paste.
    2. Heat ghee in a heavy pan on medium-low. Add bay leaf, cardamom, cloves and cinnamon and let them sizzle for 30 seconds.
    3. Add the onion-cashew paste and cook on low, stirring constantly, for 8 to 10 minutes until it thickens and ghee starts to separate. Do not let it brown.
    4. Take the pan off the heat and stir in the whisked curd, so it does not split. Return to low heat and cook 4 to 5 minutes.
    5. Add chilli powder, coriander powder, salt and sugar with 1/2 cup water. Simmer 5 minutes.
    6. Add the paneer, saffron milk, cardamom and mace powders. Simmer 2 to 3 minutes.
    7. Stir in the cream and kewra water, heat through without boiling, and serve garnished with a few slivered almonds or pistachios.

    Tips

    • Keep the heat low throughout; browning the onion paste turns the gravy beige and changes the flavour.
    • Whisk the curd until completely smooth and add it off the heat to prevent curdling.
    • Kewra is strong – a few drops is plenty.

    Serve with

    Butter naan, sheermal or saffron pulao.

  • Dal Makhani

    Dal makhani is the richer, festive cousin of maa ki dal, the everyday whole urad dal eaten in Punjabi villages. The buttery restaurant version was popularised by the same Delhi kitchens that gave us butter chicken, and it borrowed the same idea: a tomato-butter base, plenty of cream and long, patient cooking over the embers of a tandoor.

    The magic of the dish is time. Black urad simmered for hours breaks down into a velvety, almost silky body, while the kidney beans keep a little bite. The flavour is deep and earthy rather than spicy, with ginger, garlic and Kashmiri chilli in the background and a gentle smokiness if you finish it with a hot coal.

    It is the vegetarian centrepiece of Punjabi weddings and Sunday lunches, and it actually tastes better the next day once the flavours settle. Serve it with naan, tandoori roti or jeera rice, alongside a simple salad and a glass of chaas. Many restaurants keep a pot simmering at the back of the stove all day, and home cooks often start it in the morning for a dinner the same evening.

    At a glance

    RegionPunjab
    CuisinePunjabi
    DietVegetarian
    CourseMain course
    Prep time15 minutes
    Cook time90 minutes
    Total time105 minutes
    Serves6
    Spice levelMild
    DifficultyMedium
    Gluten-freeYes
    Key ingredientswhole black urad dal / rajma / butter / cream / tomato

    Ingredients

    For cooking the dal

    • 1 cup whole black urad dal (sabut urad)
    • 1/4 cup rajma (red kidney beans)
    • 5 cups water
    • 1 tsp salt
    • 1 inch ginger, sliced

    For the masala

    • 3 tbsp butter
    • 1 tbsp ghee
    • 1 tsp cumin seeds
    • 1 bay leaf
    • 1 medium onion, finely chopped
    • 1 1/2 tbsp ginger-garlic paste
    • 1 cup fresh tomato puree (about 3 tomatoes)
    • 1 1/2 tsp Kashmiri red chilli powder
    • 1/2 tsp garam masala
    • 1 tsp kasuri methi
    • 1/3 cup fresh cream
    • Salt to taste

    Method

    1. Wash the urad and rajma together 3 to 4 times, rubbing between your palms, until the water runs mostly clear. Soak in plenty of water for 8 to 10 hours.
    2. Drain, add to a pressure cooker with 5 cups fresh water, salt and ginger. Cook on high for 1 whistle, then on low for 25 to 30 minutes. Let the pressure release naturally.
    3. Check that the rajma crushes easily between your fingers and the urad is soft. Mash a ladleful of dal against the side with the back of a spoon to start the creamy texture.
    4. In a heavy pan, heat 2 tbsp butter and the ghee on medium. Add cumin and the bay leaf; when the cumin crackles, add onion and fry 6 to 8 minutes until golden.
    5. Add ginger-garlic paste and cook a minute, then add tomato puree and chilli powder. Cook on medium-low for 10 minutes until the masala thickens and fat separates at the edges.
    6. Pour in the cooked dal with its water and stir well. Add a cup of hot water if it looks too thick. Bring to a boil, then lower the heat to the minimum.
    7. Simmer uncovered for 40 to 60 minutes, stirring and mashing lightly every 10 minutes so it does not catch. The dal should turn dark, glossy and creamy.
    8. Add garam masala, crushed kasuri methi, the remaining butter and most of the cream. Simmer 5 more minutes, check salt, and swirl the rest of the cream on top when serving.

    Tips

    • The long simmer matters more than the amount of butter – do not rush the last stage.
    • Make it a day ahead; reheat with a splash of water, as it thickens considerably overnight.
    • For dhungar smoke, place a glowing coal in a small bowl on the dal, drizzle ghee over it and cover tightly for 2 minutes.

    Serve with

    Butter naan, tandoori roti or jeera rice, with onion salad and chaas.

  • Shukto

    Shukto is the opening course of a traditional Bengali lunch, served with the first mouthfuls of rice to stimulate the appetite and, by old belief, cleanse the palate. It shows up at weddings, at shraddha meals and on summer afternoons, when its bitterness is thought to cool the body. Every family has its own mix of vegetables and its own balance of bitter and sweet.

    The taste is subtle rather than harsh. Bitter gourd sets the tone, while raw banana, sweet potato, drumsticks, brinjal and broad beans add softness and sweetness. The sauce is thickened with a little mustard and poppy seed paste and finished with milk and ghee, and the tempering of radhuni or panch phoron gives it a distinct aroma. Bori, sun-dried lentil dumplings, add crunch.

    At a glance

    RegionWest Bengal
    CuisineBengali
    DietVegetarian
    CourseSide dish
    Prep time25 minutes
    Cook time30 minutes
    Total time55 minutes
    Serves4
    Spice levelMild
    DifficultyMedium
    Gluten-freeYes
    Key ingredientsbitter gourd / raw banana / sweet potato / drumstick / milk

    Ingredients

    Vegetables

    • 1 small bitter gourd, thinly sliced into rounds
    • 1 raw banana, peeled and cut into batons
    • 1 small sweet potato, cut into batons
    • 1 drumstick, cut into 7 cm pieces
    • 1 small brinjal, cut into batons
    • 8-10 broad beans (sheem), stringed
    • 1/2 cup bori (dried lentil dumplings)

    For the paste and sauce

    • 1 tbsp yellow mustard seeds
    • 1 tbsp poppy seeds
    • 1 inch ginger
    • 3 tbsp mustard oil
    • 1 tbsp ghee
    • 1 tsp panch phoron or 1/2 tsp radhuni
    • 2 bay leaves
    • 1/2 cup milk
    • 1 tsp sugar
    • 1 cup water
    • Salt to taste

    Method

    1. Soak the mustard and poppy seeds in warm water for 20 minutes, then grind with the ginger and a pinch of salt into a smooth paste.
    2. Heat the mustard oil in a kadhai until smoking, then lower to medium. Fry the bori for 1-2 minutes until golden and remove. In the same oil fry the bitter gourd slices for 3-4 minutes until lightly browned; remove and keep aside.
    3. Add the ghee to the pan, then the panch phoron and bay leaves. Let them crackle for 15 seconds.
    4. Add the raw banana, sweet potato, drumstick, brinjal and beans. Stir-fry on medium heat for 5 minutes until the edges lightly colour.
    5. Add salt and 1 cup water. Cover and cook on low-medium heat for 10-12 minutes until the vegetables are tender but still hold their shape.
    6. Stir in the mustard-poppy paste, sugar and the fried bitter gourd and bori. Simmer for 3 minutes on low heat.
    7. Pour in the milk and stir gently. Simmer for another 2-3 minutes until the sauce is creamy and lightly thickened, then finish with a spoon of ghee.

    Tips

    • Fry the bitter gourd separately and add it at the end so its bitterness stays in check and does not overwhelm the stew.
    • Stir gently with a flat spatula; the vegetables should stay in distinct pieces, not turn mushy.
    • Radhuni (wild celery seed) gives the most authentic aroma; if unavailable, a pinch of ajwain can stand in.

    Serve with

    The first course of rice at a Bengali lunch, followed by dal and fish.

  • Hyderabadi Chicken Dum Biryani

    Hyderabadi biryani grew out of the kitchens of the Nizams, and its most prized form is the kachchi style, where raw marinated meat and par-boiled rice are layered and cooked together under a seal. The meat cooks in the steam of the rice while the rice absorbs the juices of the meat. Getting both done at once is the test of a biryani cook.

    The finished biryani has long, separate grains of basmati in white, yellow and saffron-orange, with tender chicken that is spiced, tangy from curd and lemon, and fragrant with mint, fried onions and kewra. It is the dish of every Hyderabadi wedding and Eid, and of countless Sunday lunches. Every family guards its own ratio of rice to meat and its own garam masala blend.

    At a glance

    RegionTelangana
    CuisineHyderabadi
    DietNon-vegetarian
    CourseRice
    Prep time40 minutes
    Cook time60 minutes
    Total time100 minutes
    Serves5
    Spice levelHot
    DifficultyHard
    Gluten-freeYes
    Key ingredientschicken / basmati rice / curd / fried onions / saffron

    Ingredients

    For the marinade

    • 1 kg chicken, large bone-in pieces
    • 1 cup thick curd
    • 1.5 tbsp ginger-garlic paste
    • 2 tsp red chilli powder
    • 1/2 tsp turmeric powder
    • 1.5 tsp garam masala
    • 1/2 tsp shahi jeera, crushed
    • 4 green chillies, slit
    • 1/2 cup chopped mint
    • 1/2 cup chopped coriander
    • 1 cup birista (fried onions from 3 large onions)
    • 3 tbsp lemon juice
    • 3 tbsp ghee
    • 2 tbsp oil from frying the onions
    • 1.5 tsp salt

    For the rice

    • 3 cups aged basmati rice, soaked 30 minutes
    • 12 cups water
    • 2 tbsp salt
    • 4 green cardamoms, 4 cloves, 1 inch cinnamon, 2 bay leaves
    • 1 tsp shahi jeera
    • 1 tbsp oil

    For layering

    • a large pinch of saffron in 1/4 cup warm milk
    • 3 tbsp ghee
    • 2 tbsp chopped mint
    • 2 tbsp chopped coriander
    • 1/2 cup birista
    • 1 tsp kewra water
    • atta dough for sealing

    Method

    1. Mix all the marinade ingredients into the chicken in the heavy, wide pot you will cook the biryani in. Cover and refrigerate for at least 4 hours or overnight. Bring to room temperature before cooking.
    2. Bring 12 cups of water to a rolling boil with the salt, whole spices, shahi jeera and oil. The water should taste distinctly salty.
    3. Add the drained rice. Boil on high heat and start checking at 4 minutes: when the grains are about 70 percent cooked, they break when pressed but still have a firm core, scoop out a third of the rice with a slotted spoon and spread it over the chicken.
    4. Boil the remaining rice for another minute and layer half of it over the first layer. Cook the rest another minute until about 85 percent done and spread it on top. Drain well, so very little water goes into the pot.
    5. Drizzle the saffron milk, ghee and kewra water over the rice and scatter mint, coriander and the remaining birista.
    6. Seal the lid with a rope of atta dough, or cover tightly with foil and then the lid.
    7. Cook on high heat for 5 minutes until you hear the marinade sizzle and steam starts to build. Then place the pot on a hot iron tawa and cook on low heat for 35-40 minutes.
    8. Switch off and rest for 10 minutes. Open the seal and serve by scooping from the side so each portion has chicken from the bottom and rice from all layers.

    Tips

    • Use a heavy pot and a tawa underneath during dum to prevent the chicken from burning.
    • Large chicken pieces with bone hold up to the long dum without drying out.
    • Aged basmati gives long, separate grains; new-crop rice breaks.

    Serve with

    Mirchi ka salan and onion-cucumber raita (burani).

  • Mirchi ka Salan

    Mirchi ka salan is a Hyderabadi curry of long, mildly hot green chillies cooked in a nutty, sour gravy. It is the traditional accompaniment to biryani, and no Hyderabadi wedding feast serves biryani without it. The gravy, made of roasted peanuts, sesame and dry coconut with tamarind, is closely related to the base used for bagara baingan.

    The salan is thick, tangy and slightly sweet, with a deep nutty flavour from the roasted seeds. The chillies are slit, fried and then simmered so they turn soft and absorb the gravy without losing their shape. It cuts through the richness of biryani, and many people also eat it with plain rice or roti.

    At a glance

    RegionTelangana
    CuisineHyderabadi
    DietVegan
    CourseSide dish
    Prep time20 minutes
    Cook time30 minutes
    Total time50 minutes
    Serves4
    Spice levelMedium
    DifficultyMedium
    Gluten-freeYes
    Key ingredientsgreen chillies / peanuts / sesame seeds / dry coconut / tamarind

    Ingredients

    For the chillies

    • 250 g long, thick, mild green chillies (bhavnagari or banana peppers)
    • 3 tbsp oil

    For the paste

    • 3 tbsp raw peanuts
    • 2 tbsp white sesame seeds
    • 2 tbsp dry coconut, grated
    • 1 tbsp coriander seeds
    • 1 tsp cumin seeds
    • 1 medium onion, sliced and roasted

    For the gravy

    • 2 tbsp oil
    • 1/2 tsp mustard seeds
    • 1/2 tsp cumin seeds
    • 1/4 tsp nigella seeds (kalonji)
    • 1/4 tsp fenugreek seeds
    • 1 sprig curry leaves
    • 1 tsp ginger-garlic paste
    • 1/2 tsp turmeric powder
    • 1 tsp red chilli powder
    • 3 tbsp thick tamarind pulp
    • 1 tsp grated jaggery
    • 1 tsp salt
    • 1.5 cups water

    Method

    1. Wash and dry the chillies. Slit each lengthwise without cutting through, and scrape out some seeds if you want less heat.
    2. Heat 3 tbsp oil in a kadai and fry the chillies on medium heat for 3-4 minutes, turning, until blistered in spots. Remove and set aside.
    3. Dry roast the peanuts for 4-5 minutes until golden, then the sesame seeds until they pop, then the coconut until light brown, and finally the coriander and cumin for a minute. Grind with the roasted onion and a little water to a smooth paste.
    4. In the same kadai, add 2 tbsp oil and splutter mustard, cumin, nigella and fenugreek seeds. Add curry leaves and ginger-garlic paste and fry for 1 minute.
    5. Add the ground paste, turmeric and chilli powder and fry on low heat for 5-6 minutes, stirring often, until the paste darkens slightly and oil begins to separate.
    6. Add tamarind pulp, jaggery, salt and water. Bring to a boil and simmer for 5 minutes.
    7. Add the fried chillies and simmer on low heat for 8-10 minutes until the gravy is thick, oil floats on top, and the chillies are tender.
    8. Rest for 30 minutes before serving; the flavour improves as it sits.

    Tips

    • Choose thick, long chillies with low heat; small spicy ones make it too fierce.
    • Roast each seed separately as they brown at different rates.
    • The salan should be thick and oily on top, not watery.

    Serve with

    Hyderabadi biryani with burani raita, or with bagara rice.